Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Gender roles no more - Girl's can be brainy and kick butt too






From the day we are born society conditions us to believe we fit into 2 gender roles. Boys are into all things blue, sporty, rough and tough, brainy and to be assertive. Girls are all into all things pink, delicate and fluffy and honestly taught to be reserved and hide your true intelligence (god forbid a guy not like you because your intelligence may make him feel inferior). We are conditioned by our parents, TV, books and society often subconsciously from the day we are born. Thankfully for me I had parents who instilled in me it was ok to be myself and being "different" was a good thing, not a bad thing. I grew up thinking all girls loved football and sports as much as me (obviously I have come to learn this is very far from the truth), that it was ok to scream out in class like the boys to get my voice heard, that intelligence is a good thing, and should be embraced, not hidden. They encouraged me in any and all interests. I can never thank you enough for this mom and dad.

Thankfully 30 years later society seem to be embracing individuality a bit more and realizing not everyone fits into these gender roles. Not every girl is obsessed with pink, not every boy loves sports and so on and so on. If we were all exactly alike and had the same interests the world would be a very boring place. You cannot fit everyone into two rigidly defined gender roles. Honestly some of my favorite toys growing up were my Hot Wheels and WWF action figures. My mom and dad were cool enough to supply my love of them and not tell me it was weird that I liked them.

I saw the above ad for GoldieBlox on twitter today and thought to myself....FINALLY! A toy for girls not into dainty pink things and dolls. A toy that encourages you to use your brains. A toy a girl like me would have loved as a kid.

GoldieBlox is a toy company founded by Debbie Sterling, a Stanford engineer who's not impressed with the current offerings in the girl's toy aisle. So she decided to do something about it.

http://www.goldieblox.com/pages/beastie-boys-rube-goldberg-machine?src=gold

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Just Say No to Plastic Surgery - Kenny Rogers

This is what happens when people go overboard with plastic surgery, specifically face lifts and botox. You end up look like shiny plastic. Today's example is Kenny Rogers. Kenny now bears a striking resemblance to the Toy Santa from the Santa Clause 2. Why would anyone chose to do this?

Kenny Rogers Before



 
Kenny Rogers After, 2013
 
 
 
 

Toy Santa


 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Sunday, September 22, 2013

What was she thinking - Miley Cyrus


 

I really don't even know where to begin with this outfit. Miley Cyrus decided to wear this skanky, S&M inspired outfit to the iHeartRadio Music Festival.  Nipple pasties, underwear, a mesh dress, a fur shrug and a banana microphone. The only thing I can say that is nice is I like her Chanel boots. If I were her though and seemingly I was trying to look as skanky as possible, I would have went with a nice pair of lucite stripper heels to finish off the look.

Someone needs to get this girl some help. She is a train wreck in the making. We get it Miley you are trying to tell us you are a grown woman now. Act like it. Stop acting like a insolent, spiteful teenager. Have some class and act like a lady a bit more if you want some respect. Sometimes more is less. Clearly this is a lesson your parents never taught you.

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

What was he thinking? - Dwyane Wade in Gucci




Last night Dwyane Wade arrived at the United Center for game 4 against the Chicago Bulls wearing a navy double-breasted jacket with orange polka dot print ($1,995) and matching cropped pants ($560) from the Gucci Spring 2013 Collection. I am all for pushing the fashion envelope, but from the waist down the look is a complete fail. Perhaps if the pants were hemmed on him the way they were styled on the model on the right, to ankle bone length, he could have pulled this look off. Instead he decided to wear them as manpri's and looks like he is wearing Nate Robinson's suit. Props for rocking this look with confidence though Dwyane, it takes a strong man to do so.

Monday, May 6, 2013

Look of the Day - Anne Hathaway

Vintage Valentino

 
 

I am obsessed with the new look Anne Hathaway debuted tonight at the 2013 Met Gala - Punk From Chaos to Couture. newly bleached blonde hair is amazing on her and gives her a much needed edginess. Anne said she was taking her inspiration from one of my all time favorite rock chicks, Debbie Harry of Blondie. Her incredible dress is vintage Valentino from 1992. I would never think feathers, sequins and sheer paneling would work so well in one dress but somehow it does. I love the smokey and dramatic eye makeup and pale lip. Out of everyone at the event tonight I feel like she best exemplified the theme of the Met Gala, punk yet high fashion without trying too hard. A+ Anne!

Thursday, April 25, 2013

NFL Draft 2013 - It's finally here!





It's finally here, Day 1 of the 2013 NFL Draft!! While the talent in this years draft is not as exciting or talented as last year's crop, I am still excited none the less. I am rooting for my Notre Dame boys for sure, especially Manti Te'o and Tyler Eifert. Eifert is predicted by some to go in the top 10, I can't remember the last time that happened (I am guessing it's been ages). Also for the first time in a long while, Notre Dame could have two first round picks in the first round in consecutive years. After Michael Floyd and Harrison Smith went #13 and #29 overall in 2012. Some other talented Irish players who look to fair well in the draft are Cierre Wood RB, Theo Rissick RB, Braxton Cave C, Kapron Lewis-Moore DE, and Zeke Motta S. I remember a few short years ago watching and hardly any Notre Dame players were drafted throughout all 7 rounds. My how the have made strides.

I was watching the 30 for 30 the other night on the 1983 draft with John Elway and Dan Marino and was intrigues to learn more about the history of the NFL Draft. I came across a great article on Bleacher Report detailing the history of the NFL Draft since it's inception in 1936. See the link below.

http://bleacherreport.com/articles/1077925-history-of-the-nfl-draft-how-has-the-process-evolved-over-time



Sunday, April 7, 2013

Things that make me laugh - SNL Outside the Lines with host Melissa McCarthy

Last night SNL and host Melissa McCarthy had a slam dunk of a skit mocking the Rutgers basketball coach controversy. While she will always be Sookie on the Gilmore Girls to me, last night Melissa played abusive basketball coach Sheila Kelly to perfection. Sheila being a parody of former Rutgers basketball coach Mike Rice, but far more crazy and abusive. My favorite part is when she is driving the golf cart around the court chasing the girls around.

Well played Melissa, well played.




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Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Look of the Day - Olga Kurylenko in Elie Saab




In continuing with my love affair of Elie Saab, today's Look of the Day is Olga Kurylenko at the Oblivion premiere in Moscow. She is wearing an amazing and sophisticated floral-appliqué fit-and-flare Elie Saab dress paired with nude patent pumps. The color and appliqué detailing of the dress are stunning on her. She wisely paired this sophisticated look with a half up do with side swept bangs, minimal jewelry and makeup letting the dress steal the show.

Thursday, March 21, 2013

The Road Less Travelled - Maurice Jones-Drew



Nowadays it's nice to see a player in any professional sport taking the road less travelled and going back to school to finish their degree, especially in the midst of their career. This off season Maurice Jones-Drew returned to UCLA to work towards finishing his history degree. What I find impressive is that he is doing it while living in a freshman dorm. For an athlete that has made about $30 million over the course of his career, living in a freshman dorm is quite surprising.   Many athletes nowadays leave school early to cash in and chase their dream's in professional sports. Often these athletes never return to school to finish their degrees. This is likely one of the reasons that many of them are bankrupt just a few years after retiring. I don't think a lot of them realize the reality that most of their careers will only last 3-4 years on average. That means by the time most are 25 or 26 their career is over. Life will be very difficult for most without and education and degree to fall back on.

Props to Maurice as well for taking advantage of  the NFL-sponsored back-to-school program to pay for his degree. Maybe it is something the NFL could make a greater effort to promote and encourage.



Jim Trotter>INSIDE THE NFL

LOS ANGELES -- Maurice Jones-Drew is seated on the outdoor steps of a popular hangout at UCLA, where he's taking classes for the first time since leaving school after his junior season in 2005. As the courtyard bustles with students, the Jacksonville Jaguars' standout running back rolls his eyes and shakes his head. Never has he felt this completely at home and totally out of place at the same time.
"So much has changed," he says. "When I first came back everyone was taking notes on laptops and iPads. They're like, 'I can type faster than I can write.' What? I was the only one in my class to pull out a pencil and notebook. I mean, I'm about to turn 28, but I felt like a dinosaur. I was so behind the times, and everybody was so young. They just looked young."
Jones-Drew breaks into an easy chuckle. He knows he doesn't have to be here, but he made a promise to his grandmother when he left school that he would return to get his degree in history. He put it off his first few years because he was younger and enjoying the spoils of being a blossoming star, then came kids and marriage and Pro Bowls and offseason workouts.
He knew, however, that his offseason schedule this year would revolve around his rehab schedule after having December surgery to repair a Lisfranc fracture in his left foot, so he figured he could knock out several classes while receiving daily treatment from the Bruins medical staff. Shortly after the Jaguars concluded a 2-14 season, with Jones-Drew missing the final 10-plus games, the California native packed a duffle bag with clothes and a few personal items and headed west to his new digs in a freshman dorm. You read that correctly: a freshman dorm.
Less than six months earlier while attending a "life retreat" seminar in Washington, Jones-Drew listened as NFL Players Association executive director DeMaurice Smith discussed the need for players to see themselves as businessmen and not just football players. Among the things he mentioned was that 70 percent of the available monies in a league-sponsored back-to-school program was going unused.
The frugal Jones-Drew made a mental note. When he informed the Jaguars he was going back to school, ownership offered to pick up any costs not covered by the league.
Jones-Drew's dorm room is as spartan as his resume is distinguished. The three-time All-Pro and 2011 rushing champion has a desk, a dresser, an armoire and a 46-inch Plasma that provides NFL updates in the morning and Madden opportunities in the evening. Although nothing about it screams "home away from home," Jones-Drew couldn't be more comfortable.
He has a disarming, easy-going personality that puts everyone at ease. His suite mates would never know he has made nearly $30 million over the last four years if they didn't Google it. He knows all their names and even hangs out with them on occasion, like last week when one of them joined him for pizza, salad and pasta in the cafeteria.
During his first couple of months on campus he got around on a motorized scooter because he couldn't put pressure on his foot. Later, he used crutches before finally relying on a walking boot. As he moves across campus he senses when people are staring at him, but no one says anything. He knows his senses are correct, because when he checks his Twitter he sees people mentioning passing him on campus. When he tweets back and asks why they didn't say hello, the responses are vague at best.
Again, he chuckles. Jones-Drew is nothing if not approachable, even with his own team. Despite an ugly holdout that ended with him receiving significant fines for missing mandatory minicamps and training camp, he says he is on good terms with the organization, although he made a point of keeping his distance while at UCLA.
He felt the need to "emotionally detach" from his day job so he could focus on his classes and rehab. The Jaguars changed general managers and coaches after the season, and Jones-Drew says he has talked just twice with new coach Gus Bradley, who informed him that the team plans to "run the rock."
That's fine with Jones-Drew, who has set his sights on 2,000 yards this season. Never mind that he only recently started putting weight on his surgically-repaired foot. His tentative schedule is to begin wearing a regular shoe this weekend, start running in May, and be full-go in June.
When he speaks about trying to become just the eighth player in league history to reach 2,000 yards rushing, his words are coated in matter-of-factness not bravado. He truly believes it's possible -- for many of the same reasons that others believe it's not.
Go ahead, tell him that Blaine Gabbert's nine touchdown passes were the fewest of any QB with at least 10 starts, which means Jones-Drew could face a steady dose of eight- and nine-man fronts. Remind him that the Jaguars have no proven backup running back, which could lead to fatigue and heavy legs for him late in the season. And don't forget to point out that Jones-Drew is coming off a serious injury.
He'll look you the eyes, tell you you're right, then point to Vikings running back Adrian Peterson, who faced similar circumstances last season and still ran for a franchise-record 2,097 yards.
"That's what I'm thinking," he says while doing unweighted squats in the Bruins training room. "Adrian Peterson."
He's also thinking about the criticism Gabbert is receiving, notably a Yahoo! Sports column in which a former Jaguars coach anonymously referred to Gabbert as "Blame Gabbert" because of his alleged refusal to accept responsibility for his struggles.
"That pisses me off," says Jones-Drew. "I guess I was raised differently. You don't talk bad about someone unless you look him in his eyes and say it to his face. I was taught to be a man and put your name on it. Blaine doesn't deserve that at all. It's not all on him. He's a very capable quarterback."
Asked if the Jaguars can win with Gabbert as the starter, Jones-Drew answers: "Yeah, definitely. But he's like any quarterback -- if you consistently put pressure in their face they're not going to play well. That's no different from Tom Brady or Peyton Manning. Blaine is in his third system in three years; that's tough. But I believe if we're able to protect him better he'll be OK."
Jones-Drew, whose wife and three kids remained in Jacksonville while he attended school, is scheduled to return to Florida this week after concluding his finals, which call for him to submit two six-page reports in one class; a 20-page paper in another; and one two-page and two four-page essays in another.
He demands as much of himself in the classroom as he does on the football field, which is why he bristled earlier in the quarter when he received a C+ on a paper in "U.S. Civil War and Reconstruction." Not good enough.
"You must grade him just like you would anyone else," says Prof. Joan Waugh. "It wouldn't be fair if you didn't, and I'm sure Maurice wouldn't want it any other way. He's in very difficult circumstances because of his injury and being away for a while, but he's done fine. One has to admire that dedication."
Jones-Drew's decision to return was not solely about fulfilling his promise to his grandmother, Christina Jones; it was also about preparing himself for life after football. His head is filled with thoughts of law school ... and becoming a general manager ... and being a partner in an NFL ownership group.
That's down the road, though. In the meantime, he still has four or five quarters before he receives his undergraduate degree. The return to UCLA was so jarring initially that Jones-Drew considered withdrawing. There were reports upon reports to be written, pages upon pages to be read. It's fine if you're conditioned for that type of workload, but it had been eight years since he last sat in a university classroom.
"I almost just stopped coming," he says. "It was too hard. I thought they were going to ease me back in, but they didn't. It was crazy. But it would have been too easy to say 'to hell with this' and go on about your day. I'm glad I stuck it out. You're never too old to learn, and that's been one of the great things: I'm about to turn 28 and I'm learning things that I didn't know. I've also met some good people, so it's been a really positive experience."


From SI.com


Read More: http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/nfl/news/20130321/maurice-jones-drew/#ixzz2ODrirYu1

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Look of the Day - Kirsten Dunst


 
 
 


This is Kirsten at the premiere of Upside Down in a minimalistic black Prouenza Schouler dress, patterned black and white clutch, and yellow and black heels. I am always a huge fan of simple pieces with bold accessories. Love the peplum detailing and split skirt. The clutch is amazing and ties the whole look together. I am a huge fan of black and white, it's my go to color combo. A deep side part, soft waves and bold red lips pull it all together.

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

It's a Chanel world, we just live in it





Today was Chanel's Fall 2013 ready-to-wear collection show in Paris at the Grand Palais.  The centerpiece of the exquisite show was a glowing globe dotted with store locations spinning in the middle of the Grand Palais. The collection had a lot of thigh high leather boots, chain details and boxy tweeds jackets and dresses in addition to the always incredible Chanel handbags.

I always find my self amazed how Karl conjures up the ideas for the show sets, every season he seems to outdo himself.

Below are a few of my favorite looks.


Baptiste












Karl

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

The Modern Civil Rights Movement - An Op-ed by Domonique Foxworth, President of the NFL Players Association

I came across the great Op-Ed today by Domonique Foxworth, President of the NFL Players Association. In it he shares his thoughts on the modern civil rights movement and hope for a open embrace of diversity in all sports and in life.


It's Time for All Jocks to Embrace Diversity


I sat down this month planning to write a post using Dr. Martin Luther King's speech about the dignity of labor to remind people of the value of unity and importance of every individual's contribution to the collective good. You know, a nice Black History Month piece no one can disagree with. I probably will share my reflections about that speech in a post later this year. But today, sitting in my office surrounded my collection of civil rights artifacts from the 1960s, I'm compelled to write about a modern-day civil rights movement.

In my last blog I defended the character of my NFL brothers; this time I am not sure that I can do the same. I spent much of the first week of February emailing congratulations to my friends, the Super Bowl Champion Baltimore Ravens. Unfortunately, I spent most of the week prior to the big game sending emails of apology following the homophobic remarks by a 49ers player. This is not the attitude or behavior that I expect from one of my brothers. His comments both saddened and surprised me. And I'm not the only member of the union that feels this way.

I wasn't always this enlightened. While I have always felt comfortable with people living their lives in any way they see fit, and have consistently been in favor of equal rights for all, I can't say that I have never used the word gay in a derogatory manner. So this is not meant to be a judgmental lecture from an infallible man, but rather an invitation to my peers, inside and outside of sports, to reassess their opinions from an unbiased place. Or maybe from a biased place.

What crystallized my more enlightened perspective on many issues concerning the LGBT community was remembering how I felt when I heard classmates in my all-black high school say, "Domonique think he white," because I wanted to do well in school. We all belong to groups that carry stereotypes, and if we are being honest, maybe we can admit to perpetuating a few of them ourselves.

The implication that gays are somehow too soft for a football team is an absurd fallacy. You may think that doing 50 sets of squats at the gym, playing through a sprained ankle, or being that last man standing after a grueling two-a-day workout is "tough." Surviving and thriving while enduring those physical challenges requires toughness, but truly being tough and strong is when you persevere while being ridiculed, ostracized or rejected -- just for being yourself. Any person that flourishes in those conditions would be a great asset to an NFL locker room. Actually, those people probably are already assets to high school, college and NFL locker rooms. And hopefully one day soon they will feel enough support to be openly gay while playing.

We're not there yet, but we're making progress -- just take the flurry of supportive responses that professional soccer player Robbie Roberts received following his recent revelation or the overwhelming negative reaction the homophobic comments incited from writers and athletes. Terrell Suggs, Baltimore Ravens pass-rusher, said, "On this team, with so many different personalities, we just accept people for who they are and we don't really care too much about a player's sexuality." I believe this to be the more pervasive sentiment in NFL locker rooms. We still have some work to do in professional sports, and I'm confident we'll get there. It is my hope that the next generation of athletes will not support a culture of ignorance and discrimination and that gay athletes will feel comfortable being open about their sexuality. As we saw in the civil rights movement in the 1960s, progress comes with education and dialogue. And, at least in football, I want to make sure we are creating a forum where both can occur and people embrace diversity.

During my participation in the recent Harvard Business School (HBS) Admitted Student Welcome events, the level of diversity stunned me. At Harvard, diversity doesn't simply mean categorizing people by race, age or sexual preference. It is the opinion of the HBS admission staff that true diversity fosters greatness, so they build a student body comprised of people with different life experiences who bring unique perspectives.

Whether you're seeking greatness on the football field or in the boardroom, diversity is a key ingredient, as my seatmate pointed out to me on a recent train ride from New York to Baltimore. Following some NFL meetings, I was heading home and struck up a conversation with the man next to me -- an openly gay pharmaceutical executive and father of young twins.

Me: Where do you work?
Him: A pharmaceutical company based in San Diego, but I live in Bethesda now.
Me: Do you miss the great weather and beautiful women?
Him: I miss the weather. My partner and I have been together for a long time.


Somehow, I managed to continue the conversation with my foot in my mouth. And I am glad that I did. My new friend said his partner loves sports, but he himself could never enjoy them because it was made clear from a young age that he was not welcome. He went on to say he wasn't a great athlete, but he imagined there were many talented sexual minorities (a term he taught me is favored by the LGBT community), who never even step on to a field.
Since this conversation, I have been thinking a lot about being denied the path that best suits you because of the ignorance of others. There are so many great stories of pioneers in sports challenging convention and making the uncomfortable routine.

While we are still waiting for the gay pioneer in professional football, I can tell you that I already admire his bravery and selflessness -- he will be trading peace and the ability to "fit in" for added pressure and intense scrutiny. All I can offer is my support, and hopefully he will feel emboldened knowing that he will have earned a permanent place in American sports and civil rights history.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/domonique-foxworth/gay-athletes_b_2762233.html?ncid=edlinkusaolp00000003

Monday, February 25, 2013

Wacky logic of the NFL - Manti Te'o edition


I think Peter King, columnist for Sports Illustrated pretty much sums up my sentiments exactly on the whole Manti Te'o hoaxing situation. At some point people in the NFL and many journalists need to step back and and get reacquainted with reality and see the stupidity of their logic.



"Of all the people here at the combine, the one person you don't want to be is him. Seriously, I'd rather have six positive drug tests, a DUI, a domestic abuse charge and some theft incidents than have to deal with all the questions that guy's going to face. He's going to be probed by most of the teams, and all of you guys, until his head is spinning.''
-- One NFC head coach on the scrutiny that awaits Notre Dame linebacker Manti Te'o after his phony girlfriend experience of last fall, according to Michael Silver of Yahoo! Sports.


Peter King -
So ... let me get this straight, Mr. NFC Head Coach. You think that a prospect who is addicted to cocaine, beats his girlfriend and steals cars would be less investigated and fine-tooth-combed by NFL scouts, coaches and private investigators than a player who was catfished by a stranger pretending to be a girlfriend, either with or without his knowledge?
There is so much wrong with this NFC head coach's opinion that I do not know where to start.


Read More: http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/nfl/news/20130225/nfl-combine-peter-king-monday-morning-quarterback/#ixzz2Ly988VaW

Friday, February 22, 2013

Deja Vu - Kate Bosworth

I did a double take when I saw this picture of Kate Bosworth. The dress was so familiar and then it hit me....it was just like the dresses Angela Chase wore on My So Called Life in the mid 90's.





My So Called Life might be one of my all time favorite shows. I mean what girl did not want a Jordan Catalano in her life. The show was also my source of inspiration for dying my hair all sorts of fun colors of red. Ah the good old days.


Jordan Catalano

Saturday, February 16, 2013

Current Obsession - Kitten Heels

I find myself obsessed with kitten heels as of late. It's the best of both worlds, the comfort of a ballet flat and the look of a heel. Stylish yet comfortable. They are great for my everyday commute to NYC, no need to wear flats and put a pair of heels in my purse.

Below are some of my favorite ones.











Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Good luck stopping this 350lb fullback- David Fangupo




I pity anyone that gets in the way of 6'2 350lb fullback David Fangupo. He looks like a freight train running down the field, almost impossible to stop. Reminds me a bit of William "The Refrigerator" Perry, one of my favorite players when I was younger. It's absolutely amazing that someone this large can run this fast rather gracefully. He just committed to go to the University of Hawaii next year, good luck to their opponents stopping him.

Click below to watch him run.

http://youtu.be/6G5XAW2DQuE


http://www.maxim.com/the-big-leagues/350-lb-running-back-has-wheels?utm_source=foxnews_sports&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=syndication

http://larrybrownsports.com/college-football/348-pound-david-fangupo-hawaii/174694

Sunday, February 10, 2013

Look of the Day - Amy Adams in Elie Saab

Elie Saab Couture dress, Casadei shoes, and Faberge jewelry

 



Today's look of the day is Amy Adams in Elie Saab Couture dress, Casadei shoes, and Faberge jewelry at the BAFTAs. I am obsessed with Elie Saab as of late and Amy looks like perfection in this dress. The lace and embroidered detailing on the bodice and sleeves is stunning on her fair complexion and the pink Faberge earrings bringing out her amazing blue eyes. I love juxtaposition of the very feminine up do and pink lipstick with the gothic inspired dress.